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david_dawei I agree with the concerns that you mentioned and thanks for your suggestions. However picking who you choose to love isnt as always something you can fully control over. My wife and I both are not in hurry to do this, like I said the worse senarios would be to move to china first or migrate outside of the us permanently. When I decided her last year, I already prepare for the worse. I certainly hope she can come join me in the US. However life isnt always that perfect, at least for me. I rather have her then anything else and even if it means to give up my status here in the US. Anyway, thanks all for reading.

credcba, Thanks for your reply. My biggest concern is the Fuzhou or Fujian province part. As I have heard way too many stories about peopel getting rejected from this area. I have emailed and left voicemail to Marc Ellis, currently waiting for his reply. I can still wait on the process with company internal transfer to oversea if it only comes to that option and then file a DCF during next year. However I still want to explore the option of filing from the US first. Will wait till see what Marc will suggest. Again, thanks!

Hi all, First thanks for those whose constantly been active and helping others out. I really think you guys are awsome and had help many in this long battle to happies. Anyway, this is my second post that I am asking for advise/opinion. My last post was in Nov 2010, when I decided to go forward with my current wife (girlfriend at that time) and basically was really lost at that time. For those of you who like to see what i post before you find it below link or you can just read the summary outline after the link. Again, really appreciate for any feedback that you may have. This mgiht be a little, but I really need of your advise. Thanks! old post: http://candleforlove.com/forums/index.php?/topic/42528-help-guys-planning-on-fianceemarraige-visa/page__pid__564504&do=findComment&comment=564504 Summary 1. First marriage: I had a K1 in 2005 processed for my first or ex-wife who's from Fujian China. We got married in 2006. Our divorced was finallized in July 2010. Ex-wife current still live in US with the 10 Year permanent resident card issed. Long story short, this marriage was more of a family arrange and at that time I was still in college. Never the less I was too young to understand what love and relationship really mean. Basically we had a hard time understanding each other and was raelly have hard time living togehter. 2. Current Marriage: I met my wife in August 2010, 2 months after divorced was finalized, she was introduced to me by my cousin. She is also from Fujian. We clicked since our first video chat. We were talking everyday (skype, qq, phone ect..) for the next 6 months before we were engaged. Below is our time line since our first date via internet. Aug 2010- Started chatting via internet and phone almost every single day. Jan 2011- Decided to meet in person. Arrived during Chinese New Year and was engaged 7 days later. July 2011- Took 3 weeks vacation to be with her. We also traveled to Shanghai, I was meeting some headhunter in China. Sep 2011- Took another 10 days working virtually in China to be with her Nov 2011- Took Thanks giving week (11 days) off to work remotely in China to be with her Jan 2012- Took another 10 days working virtually in China to be with her, this time my parent came with me and was preparing the wedding for us. Feb 2012- Took 2 months off in China, we got married on Feb 25th. She is currently pregnant as of April 2012. After my initial post and a talked with attorneys, I understand that this will be a long and hard battle. Thus, I decided to switch my career in Jan 2011 and joined a global consulting firm in hoping that I can move to China to live with her. However after I joined, I realzed that the company requires 1 year period before I can apply for the transfer. I joined the in firm in Feb 2011 and currently just submitted the transfer. 3. Finally, my questions are the folowing. Is continue to wait on the china work tranfer still my best options? I am starting to think about filling marriage visa again due to my wife's pregnancy. Again, my biggest concern both my previous and current wife are from Fujian, as I learned this is the Nigeria of China. We have no other red flags (income, age, language), beside the Fujian part and the fact that this will be my second petition, but I know these are enough to get us turned down. But regardless, I really love my wife and even if that mean giving up everything that I have here to move back to China. However, I still wants to know there is any hope for filling the marriage based application. Also is it true that once you get denied the first interview, you will more trouble during the next or the 2nd interview? Again, thanks for any advise and sorry for the long post.

Hi, I have previsoulsy post my situation abuot my 2nd petition for my Fiance in FuZhou. I understand that this is a high fraud area where 9/10 case are rejected, thus I am thinking abuot moving back to reside in her city, Fuzhou, and work. Eventaully hoping to go through the DCF route, will this help or increast the chance on my application. Thanks!

Thanks for replying. I emailed Marc Ellis, waiting for the follow up. I understand the challenges ahead and will do what ever it takes to get my future wife here. I understand the timing for this, thus will be planning on filing not until maybe late 2011 or 2012. I agree about hiring an experienced attorney and hopefully guide me in the right direction. I am planning on visiting her twice a year. Or maybe even quit relocate myself back to China to marry her and start a family then move back with a child. Just anything that I can do at this moment...

Thanks guys! I will contact Marc Ellis.

Hi I am recent new member to this community. After reading some of the post, I felt this is the where I can relate myself to. I am stress out on my situation and was hoping to look for some advise from those of you who had similar experience. I am planning to bring my girlfriend over here to the US however I had previously petitioned my ex-wife who currently have a full status (Permenant Status). Knowing this can be red tag on my file, I am hoping to find a way to deal with this. I am really stress out as this girl is really THE ONE. My prior marriage was arranged by parent back when I was still in college. Pretty much I wasnt given any choice at the and we struggle through this entire 4 years of marriage. We were seperated on Sep 2009 and just recently divorced on July 2010. My girlfriend were introduced to me by my cousin in early Aug. We have been chatting everyday on QQ messenger since, spending over 3+ hours phone conversation daily through skype. I am planning my first vist for about 10 days sometimes next April and propose to her. Thus would like to know abuot timing for this petition, I recently heard that it is better to have 2 years gap after the first divorce. Please let me know if you can refer to a good attorney that deals with this matter or any advise. Thanks you so much for any of your informations. I am panic as I type, sorry if this isnt orangized. FYI below is some of our profile Race: I am a Chinese American, so I do speak the language fluently Age: We both are 26 Occupation: I am a Financial Consultant and She is Hospital Admin Marriage: I currently divorced (1 prior marriage) she is single (never marry before) Location: She is currently in FuJiang China.