[Well ,,from what i have seen on the slip ,,it said that they not to believe it was a real relationship ,,,I dont know what was asked at the interview ,,i was not there ,sorry to say ,,and yes i done the paper work myself ,,not that i am a wiz on paper work either ,,I am 56 and my fiancee is 53 ,,i went to china ,stayed for 15 days ,,we had a wonderful time there ,,my fiancee is retired and draws her pnsion every month ,,owns her own home in china ,,she has a son who is married and she has successfully put him thru college and started a photogrphy buisness for him ,,all own her own ,,she has been divorced for 20 years ,,the son is married and own his own now ...we have been in constant contact with each other morning and night ,,i phone her twice a day and we chat over the internet twice a day as well ,,her english skills are not well ,,but she is a fast learner and i dont see this a problem between us ,,,i am an owner operator in the trucking buisness and have a contract with fedex custom critical division ,,i am certainly not rich ,,but feel i can provide a comfortable life for my fiancee ,,,a problem that i know may have been that my past income tax return ,,i was working out of my home ,,i restored and done repair on motorcycles ,,and with this a lot of my income was cash ,,and to keep my taxes low as a lot of americans do ,,i guess not all of my income was reported ,,which now comes to bite me in the <<>> ..knowing this i quit this work trained in truck driving school ,,bought my own truck and went to work with fedex ,,i have been driving with fedex since january and have surpassed the amount of income requested of me ,,as i said i am not rich and having to re-apply go to china again certainly will not help my financial situation ,,but if this is what i have to do ,,then i will do it ,,,we are both very much in love and certainly dont want to give up in opur quest to be together ,,another thing ,,as my fiancee's father passed 10 years ago ,,and her mother very elderly ,,under care ,,there were not a lot of pictures of us and family members ,,so most of our picture were of each other and when we could get a stranger to take our picture together ,,i guess i could understand them not believing we are the loving couple ,,but we are !!!!But the way my fiancee talked ,,the officer at the interview took no time in deciding our destiny ,,with no consideration in any of the facts of our case ,,hard to see how someone who knows nothing of the love between two ,can crush all there dreams and hopes in a matter of minutes ,,,all in all though ,,i surely thought i had satisfied all the requirements of me ,,this the first time to ever go thru this ,,,i was not to realize just how difficult it was for someone to come to america ,,with thousands of immigrants intering the usa daily ,,and a lot of those illegally ,,to be granted jobs and health care without question ,,and then for someone trying to do things the right way ,,to be turned down ...well,,it was just heartbreaking to the both of us ,,i admire those of you who have withstood all the mental pressures placed upon you.and to have succeeded in your efforts ,,I am happy for you ,,I hope eventually i can finally be happy too..thanks for all the help of every one on this site ,,you have been most helpful and understanding ,,i hope to continue being a part of this great network ...Thanks Sparky
