Dave G.

This one I've got to jump in on. I've been reading about and discussing these kinds of issues lately. I'm always left with the question, "Why are so many people worried about their Asian fiancées?" When we agree to marry, do we do so with one hand over our wallet in fear they might pickpocket us when we say "I do."? It makes no sense. Men and women from all walks of life can be very kind or very conniving. Look at all the dockets in family court. Yes, a potential exists. But, is it anymore likely than if we fell in love with anyone else? If we're so worried about their motives, perhaps our motives are also suspect, which leads us to doubting them. Prenups provide a safety net for those who feel like they need it. But, it's like packing your bags and saying goodbye before you ever start the journey. I know that my fiancée is very excited about the prospect of living in the US and enjoying the resources we have. At the same time, I have enjoyed the many nice things China has to offer. When we commit to anyone, don't we take a look at ourselves and see what we have to offer them and what they have to offer us? Don't we all want relationships in which we will find our lives bettered? I know my life has been enriched since I met my China Doll. Not financially.....but with things that really matter. I suggest everyone replay the tape and see why you popped the question to get married. If you did so with doubt, then I suggest you think about it and ask your future mate again. But, this time be honest about it. Ask the question the right way: “Will you marry me and promise me that you will not steal my money?" Gee....that's romantic, ain't it?????

This is wonderful news! Thanks to all those who pursued this matter.

I am a member of the Asian American Couple group on Yahoo.com. One member suggested I check out this site to see if I could resolve my particular problem. Needless to say, what I read this morning made me quite excited. I am a May 9th victim, it would seem. NVC assured me several times that they mailed it on the 9th. GZ has never seen it. GZ will do nothing until they do and NVC's policy prevents them from doing anything further until a request is made from GZ. Stalemate. It seems I'm not the only one stick in this situation. Let's all hope that next week brings with it great luck for those ten couples.