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  1. jin signed our marriage papers both in chinese and pinyin

     

     

    kept her full chinese name, we saw no need to try and westenizer her name.

    :lol: -- My wife told me from the very first time we discussed marriage that she would not be taking my last name. I guess she did not want to be classified as some Scot/Creole/Anglo mutt ... :P

     

    Actually I am glad for her to keep her name, it is who she is.

  2. An interesting set of stats comparing China in 1978 to today.

     

    I found this one most interesting:

     

    Average Chinese savings account balance: 210 RMB. Phenomenal, considering a good job paid 50 RMB per month.

     

    In 2007: 172,534 RMB. Phenomenal, considering average American household debt in 2008 was $118,000.

     

     

     

    http://www.chinaexpat.com/blog/ernie/2009/...-and-today.html

     

    My guess is that average Chinese (household) savings of 172,523 RMB do not count rural households, but can include big cities as well as small towns.

     

    Comparing average Chinese savings account with average American mortgage debt is not informative. A typical American household has $4K in the bank. For the half of American households who have a retirement account, the average balance is $45K. And the median American family "net worth" is $120K, according to the latest Fed Survey of Family Finance.

    I agree with you as I said here:

     

    The average chinese savings account balance I would think is based on total population same as GDP. Granted comparing that to the average household debt in USA is not really fair since household debt/savings is impacted by most people have a house loan. That is another topic however --

     

    The report came from a Chinese govt. office so they were trying to make a point I think that China is a nation of savers and USA is a nation of spenders. This is true to a large extent but their comparison was unfair and as unfavorable as one could make it.

     

    Of course most Americans net worth is dependent on their house value.

  3. I like the idea of setting up a separate account for them and sending them the debit card. That to me, seems like the cheapest/easiest way to do it. We've read several posts that that suggestion has come up a few times; we'll probably take that route.

     

    I'll post several links that I found while searching for "send money" There are plenty more that I didn't list which you can search for yourself.

     

    http://candleforlove.com/forums/index.php?...ic=38455&hl

    http://candleforlove.com/forums/index.php?...ic=35260&hl

    http://candleforlove.com/forums/index.php?...ic=32767&hl

    http://candleforlove.com/forums/index.php?...ic=30959&hl

     

    You mean setting up the account in the USA for them and sending them the Debit card for ATM/purchase use?

    YES, been there tried that, and failed.

     

    Even though the last time I went to China my ATM card worked without problem.

    Yes mine works fine here in China too except for the 2.7% international transaction fee tacked onto every transaction. This would be easy to set-up from the US but I would not want to pay the fees.

     

    The easiest way I found was a direct internation transfer bank account to bank account from my USA bank. They charge a flat $40 fee (so the more you send the lower your fee --- go for your in-laws :) ). The transfer can be made via phone (after setting up security) and usually arrives in China within 24-48 hours or sooner.

  4. I like the idea of setting up a separate account for them and sending them the debit card. That to me, seems like the cheapest/easiest way to do it. We've read several posts that that suggestion has come up a few times; we'll probably take that route.

     

    I'll post several links that I found while searching for "send money" There are plenty more that I didn't list which you can search for yourself.

     

    http://candleforlove.com/forums/index.php?...ic=38455&hl

    http://candleforlove.com/forums/index.php?...ic=35260&hl

    http://candleforlove.com/forums/index.php?...ic=32767&hl

    http://candleforlove.com/forums/index.php?...ic=30959&hl

     

    You mean setting up the account in the USA for them and sending them the Debit card for ATM/purchase use?

  5. Yes, I agree that there probably are few B2 visas obtained this way but it is worth the chance as he wants her to obtain one so badly I certainly would not overlook it as a chance, compared to the conventional way but you would probably be surprised how many obtain B2 visas this way. It has only been a year or two that a Visa Office was caught for issuing visa in China for sex from the Chinese girls that were applying. He would approach the ones that he wanted and offer them a 100% guarantee of a visa for sex. He was eventually caught. The number was in the hundreds if I remember correctly.

    If course you are entitled to your opinion. That is why we are all here to offer our own specific opinions and they seem to vary rarely coincide with each other.

     

    Larry

    can you provide a link to this story. I would be interested to read it.

    I don't know as it was about 2 years ago but I will Google for it perhaps you could too.

     

    Larry

    I tried but I could not find any stories about a USA Immigration/Visa Officer offering sex in exchange for visas to the US.

  6. Thanks Dan for the quick and informative response as usual and thanks guys for the congrats.

     

    Couple more questions that I just thought of:

     

    When we go apply for the Marriage license, I assume she will have to sign some papers. She has previously only ever signed things in Chinese with her chinese name. Should she design a new english signature to sign the marriage license and everything else going forward?

     

    Name change? I'm talking about first name change, not last name. Has anyone done this before? We want to officially change her first name from chinese name to her english name, but keep her last name. How should this be handled? Will it cause any conflicts in various documents going forward?

     

     

    Thanks!

     

    Dennis

    As I always say a person's signature is their "MARK" no need to change, if she is comfortable with sighing using Chinese, then continue doing so.

     

    However if designating a name change on the license and she is going to take your name, then may consider using Pinyin for first name and you name as last name. My wife did not have a "middle" name so her family name is now her middle name.

     

    After marriage you applied for SSN, and adjusted status using married name.

     

    My wife has an "English" first name but it is her Nick-Name, it is not used of any legal documents.

    To be honest I never thought about this. I just assumed that in the USA a chinese person would sign their chinese name in pinyin. I did not think a chinese signature would be accepted. FWIW my wife signs all her Chinese credit card receipts in China in pinyin.

  7. Turbo, In my opinion you are overlooking the most important factor.

    Guanxi, I know you are trying to do everything yourself and the legal way but you are in China. Guanxi is EVERYTHING in China, as I am sure you already know, if there is enough guanxi everything is possible. Won't her boss help her? If you want the desired results and you want them right now.

     

    I can tell you this my wife did not provide bank account information or any thing else. She talked to her boss and provided her personal information and he took care of the rest. All she had to do was pick up her passport and visa when it was ready. Then again he did have some very strong guanxi ties both in China and America. She got her passport and the visa in it in less than 2 weeks.

     

    Talk to him about it.

     

    Larry

     

    Edit: I am not talking political stand here but the fact is that with the several heavy hitting political issues that have taken place in the recent past and not so distant past these issue might affect the amount of B2 visas that are being issued with guanxi and without guanxi. Just my two cents worth. As I have said before the B2 seemed to be a little easier to get lately but now I don't know.

    She's in China but the embassy is American. I doubt 99% of "guanxi" relationships would do anything to help, aside from (1) having a good employer who assures you'll come back or (2) having Hu Jintao as your dad. Just my opinion.

    She got her B2 visa at the embassy in Beijing. You arn't saying that guanxi don't extent itself inside of the embassy are you? I think that would be somewhat of a mistake. There are many Chinese that work inside the embassy and the Americans that work there and that are assigned there do venture outside once in a while.

    People that are in the position to help people are usually sought out to make friends with them just in case they are needed someday. Guanxi

     

    Larry

    This is getting a little far from the point of the thread, but anyhow... The OP can decide whether or not he knows anyone who knows someone who has authority over issuing American visas and will be willing to smooth the process in light of those relationships. I stand by my original speculation that 99% of people in this situation are not going to be able to muster any of their ¡°guanxi¡± to help.

     

    As far as being certain that guanxi extends its influence into the consulate just because the American employees ¡°venture outside once in a while,¡± I don¡¯t think this recognizes the depth of the concept of guanxi and its differences from our western concept of, e.g., ¡°friends knowing friends.¡± The concept and importance of guanxi exists because Chinese are raised to stress their place within a social network, to understand and comply with social expectations, gain face, and obey authority. They grow these complicated relationships mostly for the sheer pleasure of it, and they obey the dictates of guanxi because that¡¯s what they were raised and taught to do. Just because the American embassy workers live in China, need favors, and ¡°venture outside once in a while¡± doesn't mean they will build and maintain this guanxi or that they'll respond like Chinese to a person marshalling their guanxi in hopes of ¡°greasing the machine¡±...

    It is very obvious that you don't know very much about your own American government and how thing are done not to mention how the military works. Have you ever been in the military or worked on a military base as a civilian? Guanxi is very much alive right here in America we just call it by other names. Much, much more gets done via one hand washing the other rather than through official requisition channels. If everything went through the proper channels nothing in our government would ever get done. In order for my old department to get a $100 part for a piece of equipment from a civilian parts house down town the paper trail would have to go through at least 15 different peoples hands and be signed off by each one and take at least 2 weeks to accomplish but with the use of gusnxie the same part could be obtained in less than 4 yours. That is how it works in the real world.

     

    Guanxi is certainly the way many many thing get accomplished in China as well as America. With 32 years in the military and as a civil service worker I can assure you that I could fill the next 20 pages with examples no exaggeration just the truth.

     

    Yes, I agree that there probably are few B2 visas obtained this way but it is worth the chance as he wants her to obtain one so badly I certainly would not overlook it as a chance, compared to the conventional way but you would probably be surprised how many obtain B2 visas this way. It has only been a year or two that a Visa Office was caught for issuing visa in China for sex from the Chinese girls that were applying. He would approach the ones that he wanted and offer them a 100% guarantee of a visa for sex. He was eventually caught. The number was in the hundreds if I remember correctly.

    If course you are entitled to your opinion. That is why we are all here to offer our own specific opinions and they seem to vary rarely coincide with each other.

     

    Larry

    can you provide a link to this story. I would be interested to read it.

  8. ok. So I should buy a book which a post has stats based on... so the Original poster should not buy the book despite a thread based on a writing based on a book which they have never read.... but all others should buy the book and read it before they post in reply?

     

    I found it for $2.00 online... I'll buy the book. Will the OP and you do the same? Maybe then we can talk about it.

    Just to give an update. I ordered the book. I'll wait to hear if others are as willing to read what they want to post about.

     

    I was not willing to comment but am willing to read it first.

    I found it for 20 USD online. Where did you find it for 2 USD?

     

    Actually I posted the link because I found it interesting and thought it might, as Jesse state, provoke thought, conjecture, and observations.

     

    The stats from the link and the book would come from the State Council Information Office since the book is published by:

     

    China Intercontinental Press, under the authority of the State Council Information Office, is a multimedia, comprehensive foreign communication institution, whose main function is to make propaganda products. With its principle of "let the world know China, and let China know the world".

     

    The basis for the stats, I thought, were pretty straightforward. The disposal income is urban only (stated in article), the absolute proverty is rural (stated in the article, and the others with one exception should be self-explainatory.

     

    The average chinese savings account balance I would think is based on total population same as GDP. Granted comparing that to the average household debt in USA is not really fair since household debt/savings is impacted by most people have a house loan. That is another topic however -- :lol:

     

    Here is a link with the exact same urban dispoal income numbers and other intersting comparisons including the increase in rural disposal income also:

     

    http://www.mysinchew.com/node/19358?tid=14

     

    If you want a doctorial discussion regarding the Chinese economy and growth over the years including the past 30 years then I would highly recommend "The Chinese Economy-Transitions and Growth by Barry Naughton. This is a fantastic book. One of the things he says is:

     

    During most of the 1990s, it was perhaps more common to underestimate China. The shock of the 1989 Tiananmen student demonstrations and their brutal suppression caused many observers to downgrade their forecasts for China¡¯s future. Since the beginning of the twenty-first century, though, it has perhaps been more common to overestimate China. Overestimation often involves seeing China as an economic competitor, and perhaps as a potential strategic rival, to the United States. China¡¯s economic success has paradoxically

    convinced many that China is some kind of economic superpower,

    instead of a struggling developing country. This view reflects a major misunderstanding both of the nature of the economic links between China and the United States and of the magnitude of the challenges facing China. Placing China in a developmental context should make it clear not only that China faces formidable challenges, but also that Chinese policy-makers generally recognize the same problems and challenges that outside observers see.

  9. I'm not going to look at links for now... but all the cities named are the top cities of china; The majority of china is not at these cities.

     

    So, maybe money is available only if you live in a big or developed city? would be better to show what percent of china dwell there.

    David your 80% right. Qingdao is the only one of the five that is not a Tier 1 city (it is Tier 2).

     

    My experience is that people get loans in the 5 cities meantioned (only because I know chinese people in those cities who have loans). What percentage have loans is a totally different answer and I looked briefly for this type of info. but could not find anything.

     

    Just for fun using same source:

     

    As for the population (2009):

    Beijing: 17.6MM

    Shanghai: 19.2MM

    Guangzhou: 10.2MM (2008)

    Shenzhen: 8.6MM (2007)

    Qingdao: 7.6MM (2007)

    Percent of China: 63.2MM / 1400 MM = 4.5%

  10. My wife had my passport with her during the interview as I was waiting downstairs. The VO looked at it and I believe it made a good impression. It's also another way to confirm your previous visits so why not?

     

    Jon & Cindy

    understood. guess i'll have her bring mine as well. thx.

    I went with her to the interview but am also living in China. If I had not have gone with her I would have given her my passport to take so they could see my Chinese residence permit and exit/entry stamps as proof of our time together.

     

    As an aside .. I thought about missing the interview as I had some meetings at work scheduled for that day and it was the week before CNY. On the other hand I wanted to be there for her to help calm her down and just case anything went wrong. My boss from Holland gave me some advice that helped me made my decision for me:

     

    It is a very important step for the two of you. One day out of your life is not as important as this step. Go on the interview with her.

     

    Granted if I was in the USA it would be more than one day and more costly but it would still be words to consider. In my (and your) case I was alway in China so it was much easier to attend. My advice - give her your passport but also be in the coffeshop downstairs waiting for her.

  11. :D If you really need to sit around worrying about the real estate bubble and /or the entire economy bubble in China here's some reading to get you going... :lol: :yikes: :blink:

     

    http://chovanec.wordpress.com/2010/01/30/r...na-real-estate/

     

    http://www.scribd.com/doc/26781802/China-T...liy-Katsenelson

     

    http://www.forbes.com/2010/02/11/china-bub...l?feed=rss_home

     

    http://www.chinalawblog.com/2010/01/china_...e_bubble_w.html

     

    enjoy... :lol:

    Good links although the 4th one links back to the 1st one .. :D

     

    Just to keep perspective here is another link from Forbes with a different opinion ... (they are really like arseholes)

     

    http://www.forbes.com/2010/02/03/china-eco...latedstoriesbox

     

    I have heard the arguement that China's growth numbers are illusions and/or lies. This links discusses that issue.

  12. I have been looking on wholesale-fares.com's website and they offer some attractive prices. Just curious if anyone has used them before and if they had a good or bad experience.

    Thanks in advance.

    Paul

    When I looked at the ATL-SHANGHAI flights the fares were attractive. They were ~600 USD round trip. Then when I looked at the fine print I saw this:

     

    Additional taxes/fees: Additional taxes and fees may apply to International itineraries. Charges of up to $345.00 USD may apply depending on the itinerary chosen

     

    FWIW - I don't like the websites that make you have to call to get book the ticket. Defeats the purpose of booking online.

  13. The economy is booming in China however many of the young in China are finding it difficult to have a roof over their heads. Price of home have soared where it now takes 60-70% of a person income just meet their mortgage payment. The bubble is growing and when it pops there is going to trouble in China.

     

    http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/conte...0021700265.html

     

    Most Chinese people don't get mortgages. They pay cash for the complete price of their home. This includes young and old alike.

     

    Somebody forgot to tell the banks that then.

     

    While in rural a third-tier cities cash is king, the majority of homes sold in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou are with conventional mortgages.

    Same for Qingdao and Shenzhen

  14. This may not be directly related. But many experts are saying Chinese yuans are under-valued by 25-40%. But if they let yuans rise 40% (in 5-10 years), it will be a huge problem for U.S. citizens who plan to retire in China, because the U.S. income from pension souces will not go far in China when converted to yuans.

     

     

    But it will be a gift from heaven for those who work in China and have their US$ salary pegged at a rate of 8.3 RMB per dollar.

    Why would they be pegged to 8.3 RMB/dollar?

     

    Because most major multinational companies give you a number of salary options one of which is converting your US$ salary and pegging it at a fixed RMB exchange rate. Mine is pegged at 8.36 RMB per US$.

     

    Granted I'd have been FITA if the RMB had gone the other way.

    That is what I thought you meant but I asked because it seems your company is much kinder than ours. Usually the company adjusts the peg as the exchange rate adjusts (usually only if it moves by more than 10%). We are pegged at 6.85 RMB/USD.

  15. I've heard of US buses having a devices installed which keeps them under a certain speed limit. You know, I've seen a few primary school buses in Wuhan, but it's not really all that common. The seat belt requirement is a good idea.

     

    I typically see grandma and grandpa taking their grandkids to school on the PT buses which are usually overcrowded in the mornings. Interesting read.

    Yea I remember when being in 5th grade we had this hippe HS driver (our crazy state had High School students as part-time bus drivers back then) who smoked dupe and evidently figured out how to remove the device that controlled the bus speed. We thought it was great because we got home 15 minutes earlier. Alas he was arrested soon after .... :unsure:

     

    I am glad to see China pass this rule ... implementation will be another thing.

     

    Like you I've seen them take the kids to school on the buses but also I see many taking their kids to school riding "shotgun" on the scooter ... meaning the kid stands at the front just behind the handlebars while the parents sits and drives. Usually the parent is wearing a helmut and the kid is not ... :unsure:

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