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Ok folks here is what I know now. My SO's VO was a young USA man. He could not speak Chinese very well and my SO could not understand him much. He kept asking her if her exhusband was in the USA. Her ex lives in China and always has. He also asked her several times why I have not come to china to marry her. He asked her how we communicated and she said she spoke some english but mostly we chatted as she can write good english. She offered to give him all of our emails and chats but he refused to want to see them. He only looked at the pictures and said that we lie. He asked her my job and she answered him correctly and he still said that she lied. I double checked all of my paperwork and everything is correct! After he gave her a denial paper she went to see a lawyer in the consulate building. He said he could not help her as the case has to be sent back to the USA. I will fight this to the end. My SO told me that the VO was refusing visas to others also. The VO's initials are BK. We are really heartbroken at this time but we will regroup and get this thing done. We vowed a long time ago to never change our love no matter what. My SO and I are sticking to this no matter how long it takes or if I have to go to China and live. We talked about us getting married in China but I must agree with LeeFisher's comments. Thank all of you for your sympathies and your advice. It really means a lot to me.

My friends, I am now gathering information. As soon as I have the real picture here I will share it with all of you. Thank you so much for all of your help. I have a lot of work do do now. I will be in touch soon.

ok I just saw a picture of the paper my SO got form the VO. The paper states that my petition is going back to the CIS. They say we do not have a bona fide relationship. My SO told me the VO said that our pictures lie. We had good pictures and I really do not understand this. Obviously something went very wrong with the interview but at this time I am not sure what it is. She also told me the VO ask her why I did not marry her when I came to China. The first time I came to China I had only known her for 4 months. The second time I came to China we had already filed the K1. I really do not understand this. Anyone have any ideas? If anyone wishes to see the paper then PM me with your email address and I will send it to you. Many thanks to my friends here on CFL. Charles

i have never filed a CR or K! before. Sounds to me like a vO not knowing the law. I will contact my senator first thing in the morning.

It was not a blue slip. She said I as ineligible as to my 5 previous mariages. Thoughts?

Sorry to hear this! But you guys can over come it Bobby/Emma Thanks Bobby and Emma, I plan on doing just that.

thank you so much..........i feel really bad now as well as my SO feels the same. We just finished cryin to each other over the phone. Our love is very real so plan b is in effect. Looks like life in china won't be bad after all. Whatever it takesssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

right now i am shattered.........but I plan on being with my SO forever.........we have vowed to never give up!!!!!!!!!!!!! the gem cannot be polished without friction.

or maybe the NVC was told to use all of their old forms up before using the new ones. My son works for the government and he has told me this happens a lot.

here is the link............http://www.njstar.com/tools/telecode/

Frank I have a tendancy to agree with you. My SO says that this has happened to friends of hers and seeing as she is very thorough she told me to stay home and answer the phone..........lol

search njstar and you will find what you need. All you do is type in your SO's name in Chinese and this will give you the number you need.

My financee is on her way to her interview. She just told me that it is possible that the VO could call me at my home while she is at the interview and ask me how I know her. Of course I know all things about her so answering any question they might have will be easy;) I just have never seen anyone on CFL talk about this. Just curious if anyone has had the VO call them during the interview. Personally, I hope they do as I know for certain this will seal our visa

I am sure she will do fine my friend. My SO's interview is tomorrow. This will be a greaaaaaaaaaaaaaattttttttt week for us This indeed will be a great week!!! I wish your SO all the best tomorrow!!! I will be watching CFL for your good news!! Believe me, I will post it in the blink of an eye Just think, all of this waiting will be over soon and we will be united with our SOs. OOOOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHHH HAPPY DAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am sure she will do fine my friend. My SO's interview is tomorrow. This will be a greaaaaaaaaaaaaaattttttttt week for us

yeah man i be awake for wheellllllllllllllllllllllllll.................... 240684[/snapback] am i reading wrong or did i file before you? 240688[/snapback] Nah, man, you are reading correctly. I was just testing you to see if you were awake and for reel .... Wheel Man My wife and family have been at Mr. Yang's this week. She was very happy with Mr. and Mrs. Yang and appreciative of the help they gave her. Looks like we have a similar timeline....................Man oh man what a long wait........I am happy your SO passed.......My SO goes her tomorrow morning................I am sooooooo excited with much anticipation of success Wish me your same luck my friend........

Is that ALL you needed, to see her? Wheel Man 240677[/snapback] at this point, yessssssssss..........today the cam, soon the real thinggggggggggggggggg 240678[/snapback] Well, dangggggggggggggg man, you sure be easy to please! Congratz on seeing her and how that made you feel !! It looks as though she will not have a difficult time making YOU happy - and that has to be a good thing. Happy for you, reel happy for you. Wheel Man 240681[/snapback] seeing her on the webcam was fantastic.......we did this a lot when she was at her home. hadn't seen her in a few days so it was veryyyyyyyy nice...............and yes, she make me feel wheelllllllllllllllllllllll good 240682[/snapback] Dangggggggggggggg, just now I look at your timeline. Hum. You filed your I-129 about 5 months after we did and your interview is about 10 days before ours - what do you know that we don't about filing paperwork with GUZ? Can you tell us without having to kill us? hahahaha Well, Wheel Man is still very wheely, wheely happy for you - congratz on a wheely fast process ... wheely, wheely great, man. ALways the best, Wheel Man 240684[/snapback] am i reading wrong or did i file before you?

Is that ALL you needed, to see her? Wheel Man 240677[/snapback] at this point, yessssssssss..........today the cam, soon the real thinggggggggggggggggg 240678[/snapback] Well, dangggggggggggggg man, you sure be easy to please! Congratz on seeing her and how that made you feel !! It looks as though she will not have a difficult time making YOU happy - and that has to be a good thing. Happy for you, reel happy for you. Wheel Man 240681[/snapback] seeing her on the webcam was fantastic.......we did this a lot when she was at her home. hadn't seen her in a few days so it was veryyyyyyyy nice...............and yes, she make me feel wheelllllllllllllllllllllll good

Is that ALL you needed, to see her? Wheel Man 240677[/snapback] at this point, yessssssssss..........today the cam, soon the real thinggggggggggggggggg

that is really toooooooooooo coolllllllllll...........tonight is a good night 240673[/snapback] Well don't wait, go ahead and start pacing. I can guarantee it doesn't do anything to help the process, but it gives you something to do while you wait. 240675[/snapback] that's a bigggggggggggggggggggggggg 10/4 good buddy

that is really toooooooooooo coolllllllllll...........tonight is a good night

i must agree..........this is a very crucial time for our SOs and me tooooooooo

big timeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee........... Yang is very very good....My SO is very happy there.

Just saw my SO via yahoo webcam. She is in Mr Yang's office. Mr Yang was very kind to let her do this. I needed it BADDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

I just printed them both out and gave them to her.. she looked at them and said she wanted them one month to a page... Ok.. I found where one can build their own calendar.. so I can now do it by month: http://thunder.eeap.cwru.edu/ccal/getpdf.htm 238628[/snapback] This is really cool. Thanks guys..........