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When I first met my then girlfriend in person, in Beijing, and that first night in the hotel room bed. I left all the lights on when we climbed into the bed. Later when she could speak english enough to tell me, she told me it was the most exciting experience to her....to actually have a man see her when they made love. Evidentally some Chinese guys like doing it in the pitch black dark.....I don't know. Heck, I like the lights on. How can a guy enjoy the whole show if'n the lights is off? Good luck with yore trip. tsap seui

I've been to China a couple of times already for business and sightseeing, touristy stuff, so the landscape isn't new to me. I try to keep my head out of the clouds and think things through. I think she's smitten. When I'm at work, she'll want to have the webcam on just to watch me. She'll lay her head on the desk and watch me for a couple of hours before going to sleep. Very cute. She hasn't dated for 14 years so must be something about me that pulls at her heart. I've decided that it's not a good idea to marry on the first trip. Like you said, I don't want to rush into it. But if we do decide that it is what we want, I'll return to the US and finish up somethings around here, packing, storing items and such and get my house rented out through a property manager.