david_dawei Posted May 10, 2005 Report Share Posted May 10, 2005 I understand you want to convert her to be 'American' in all her ways. I hope it works out for you as you want and desire. Link to comment
NicolaNSam Posted May 10, 2005 Report Share Posted May 10, 2005 i don't understand it .My whole point is that we should all think about the future. What are you going to call yourself when your AOS comes now? Link to comment
NicolaNSam Posted May 10, 2005 Report Share Posted May 10, 2005 I understand you want to convert her to be 'American' in all her ways. I hope it works out for you as you want and desire.Will a lot of people really disagree with me that Chinese women are not all submissive and they do not all require thier husbands to sign things and approve of what they want. Does anyone else agree that your SO should have her own credit history and not risk being called "American" like its a bad word! HAHAHA Remember we are bringing them to America. I don't want to "CONVERT" Nicola into anything. Converting someone would require me to control them and change them into what I "Want" them to be. I want Nicola to move and function by herself without need my conversion and controlling. OMG i'm beating my head against the wall. When I look at Nicola I see a beautiful and tallented person who does not need my to change and control her ideas or actions. I trust her decisions and share our future together. She's not a plant that I trim and turn in directions that I want, she's a human with her own identity. Too much thinking! I'm out of this thread! I'm just VERY serious about not controlling and keeping anyone down. Sorry if anyone disagrees. Link to comment
david_dawei Posted May 10, 2005 Report Share Posted May 10, 2005 I just re-read every post... I see people discussing both sides of the fence.. and nobody getting all worked up. I also don't find anyone calling chinese woman 'submissive'.. SO why did that suddenly enter this?  You accusing everyone of not agreeing with you as portraying their SO as submissive? I would not characterize them this way nor my SO. I would think that most (if not all) want their SO to move and function by herself; as well asl trusting their decisions... So I don't see how a separate credit report makes someone function or be truthworthy anymore than someone without one. Everyone will work out their relationship to be as fulfilling as they define it.. but we don't need to get all upset. There's too much fallout in the last three weeks of posts getting out of hand. I'm not interested in this becoming another one.. Link to comment
Guest aosnow Posted May 10, 2005 Report Share Posted May 10, 2005 is this guy for real?My wife has an identity. she doesnt need her own credit card to acquire an identity. If you guys think independence is about money or credit, I can't help you. Link to comment
david_dawei Posted May 10, 2005 Report Share Posted May 10, 2005 I actually agree with aosnow on something... Now, if we end up back at the 'raising kids in china', we'll part quickly again... Link to comment
Guest aosnow Posted May 10, 2005 Report Share Posted May 10, 2005 david,i guess you didnt see my post yesterday on that subject. Link to comment
david_dawei Posted May 10, 2005 Report Share Posted May 10, 2005 david,i guess you didnt see my post yesterday on that subject.I did.. .that's why I said "we'll part".. meaning, take opposite sides !! Link to comment
Guest aosnow Posted May 10, 2005 Report Share Posted May 10, 2005 i can respect those with whom I disagree as long as the positions are well reasoned. I accept the fact that it sets me apart here. Link to comment
Dan R Posted May 10, 2005 Report Share Posted May 10, 2005 OOOooooooooo Can everyone resist biting at the bait? Link to comment
Guest aosnow Posted May 10, 2005 Report Share Posted May 10, 2005 as for my next name...not sure yet...how about r2d2? Link to comment
david_dawei Posted May 10, 2005 Report Share Posted May 10, 2005 how about something more optimistic , like Darth Vader.. Link to comment
Guest aosnow Posted May 10, 2005 Report Share Posted May 10, 2005 or maybe hypoclown. Link to comment
david_dawei Posted May 10, 2005 Report Share Posted May 10, 2005 or maybe hypoclown.I get it.. careful.. Link to comment
Dan R Posted May 10, 2005 Report Share Posted May 10, 2005 or maybe hypoclown.I get it.. careful..just had a vision of a hippopotamus in a clown suit Link to comment
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