American wife vs Chinese Husband

[nygatl15]

i guess I'm the selfish one here. I don't think I could live in China. I love my SO, but I have never given any thought to moving there or from Georgia. she wanted me to move to San Fran. I'm in Georgia.

 

I invited her to my world and I will do everything to make her comfortable here, but China has too many issues for me to move there and I have my kids here that still need me.... I think they do.

 

But I do understand she is making a big change for me and I respect her for that. She lived here once and doesn't want to live in china either.

 

Her daughter is still there eith her Ex, I told her she could live with us and I would treat her as my own child.... what can I say?, I'm an old dog who refuses new tricks