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  1. I would suggest having your wife apply for a B2 visa.To be honest, I don't think her chances of obtaining it are going to be great, but it's not impossible. The biggest issue for her to overcome will be the presumption that she'll come in on a B2 with the intent of adjusting status, being married to an American. Contrary to popular belief it's actually not illegal to travel to the US specifically for the reason of giving birth, provided one has sufficient funds to pay for the medical care.

     

    FYI I130s are now taking 14-16 months. Maybe on a K1 she'd be able to arrive in the US within 8 months, but that option is no longer available and would have its own issues anyways. I do agree with Randy that you may be overstating the benefits of being born on US soil. However.....

     

    I can understand SeanC and think it's an awful situation, but it is what it is with the 5-year travel ban. I would have been beyond miserable had I not been able to witness the birth of my daughter alongside my wife, and been there to support her during those first few difficult post-birth months (as well as spending time with the baby...). And the medical care my wife received in a middle-of-the-road hospital here in the US was far better than the care her sister received when she gave birth at the "best" hospital in her city (a T3/4 city fwiw).

     

     

     

    She won't be alone - she has FAMILY in China.

     

    Maybe she does, maybe she doesn't, or isn't on good terms with them. I don't think this is a given.

  2. Thanks again for the quick reply! some of the pages the text looks "wavey" from the way they sent the photo and scanned copies. I think im being paranoid but they should be fine I think just don't want any problems. Should I wait for them in the Mail and make my own scanned copies in a better quality?

     

    I used a free phone app to scan the pages and they looked pretty bad. I didn't have any issues. As long as everything is legible, I'd probably opt for doing what is fastest - in this case - sending in the docs asap. AOS processing times are really long now and I wouldn't want to delay the process even more.

  3. Alright Thanks for all the info and help provided. I was able to have her family figure it out over in China. We got the Notarial Birth Cert and they sent me photo copies so I can submit while waiting for them to arrive to use in the Mail.

     

    One quick question, It comes with a translation, do I still need to use another service to translate it before submitting it to them? Thanks in Advanced

     

    Nope, the translation inside the notatorial certificate is sufficient - at least it was for me.

  4. I already submitted the I130 back on July 18th, will a closure cause a problem if it gets approved before? Also, I brought up giving money but I guess her father is very strange, may not take it. Is the birth certificate an absolute must for the interview? Or can a statement with evidence showing we couldn't get it work?

     

    If it gets approved you should be fine. I would be surprised if you don't get an RFE for the missing white book. I'm almost 100% sure a photocopy needs to be included with the I130.

  5. Not to add any additional pressure but I absolutely would haul ass to get this done. USCIS has decided to close all international field offices by the end of March 2020, with the bulk of them shuttering by the end of January 2020. They've already closed Manila, Moscow, and one of the Mexico offices. Once a cut-off date is set, all new petitions will be forwarded to the Chicago lock box. My guess is that an application with a pending RFE would get forwarded to one of the USCIS service centers in the US, which would significantly lengthen the process and create more opportunities for USCIS to screw up or lose your paperwork.

     

    Yes, you will need the white book. Someone just recently posted a similar topic - getting RFE'd during AOS after submitting only the medical certificate: http://candleforlove.com/forums/topic/49893-rfe-for-birth-cert-after-biometrics-while-in-the-us-on-travel-visa/

     

    Any chance some $$$ might persuade her father to change course? Just a thought ...

  6. I kinda doubt that Randy.Its very embarrassing so I doubt many people will speak up.

    I'm not judging, just genuinely curious - what's keeping you from leaving her? Do you really think things would be even worse if you were on your own? Obviously bickering, getting fed up with each other, and the occasional blow up are unavoidable even in healthy couples, but spitting is just straight up mental instability.

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    My wife ended up calling the consulate in Chicago and spoke to an (incredibly rude) employee regarding our daughter's travel. . . . .

    Yep, stepping out of that elevator at the consulate is like stepping into a little piece of China, but in Chicago.

     

    What are the odds that the staff person was, in fact, just ordinary by Chinese standards and the last year and a half of visiting American doctors and hospitals made mama a little soft? :)

     

     

    Believe me if this was a shopkeeper or taxi driver or even government bureaucrat in China my wife would have no problems telling them to get bent. But best not to risk it when it come to our daughter's travel document haha. Let's just say the phone call ended with the employee angrily hanging up the phone after my wife asked how we could renounce our daughter's citizenship.

  8. My wife ended up calling the consulate in Chicago and spoke to an (incredibly rude) employee regarding our daughter's travel. Turns out she will indeed need the travel card, which isn't a total shock since I got a bunch of feedback from you guys. We have an appointment set up for the day after labor day, so we'll drive down and combine it with a family visit/vacation (my parents live in Chicago).

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    Ok the hornet's nest is history. She killed more than 100 hornet's one at a time

    But the last one got her good before it died. I just don't get it. Absolutely no common sense at all!

    Sorry to hear of the trouble you're having. I'm a newcomer to this board so I don't know what you've posted before, but hopefully things end up working out one way or another. If there's any advice you can offer, it'd be much appreciated for a "greenhorn" like me :yikes:

    Welcome!. This has been going on for 12 years. Hell I have suffered so much abuse that it has just become a normal way of life. I hope you have better luck than I have!

    Nice to hear from someone new. Come on back and let us hear from you!

     

     

    We're going on two years (plus many years of "dating" before) and it's been a great two years with an 11 month old baby.

     

    If there's one thing I learned, it's to nip problem relationships in the bud, immediately. Learned that in college after I dragged on a relationship for like 18 months after I should've ended it, but didn't because I was too scared to tell her to GTFO. What a ******* waste of time, and for reasons far less sever than abuse. Never again.

  10. The wording is the same at all their embassies and consulates.

     

    Again, though, the meaning of "settled" 定居在外国 dìngjū zài wàiguó or "settled in a foreign country", is up to their interpretation - so far, it HAS meant acquired a green card.

     

    The alternate translation (probably the one corresponding to their use) of "定居" is "to take up residence" (from Pleco).

     

    I'm pretty sure Greg meant to say "we would NOT have risked traveling on a travel permit if only because the child has reduced rights ", instead of "we would NOT have risked traveling on a visa if only because the child has reduced rights "

     

     

    Your wife can also stay in Hong Kong for up to 7 days visa free.

     

    Perhaps consider a trip to Hong Kong for 7 days, followed by a solo trip for your wife across the border (I don't think I'd recommend taking your daughter, even "visa-free", without either the visa or travel permit), followed by another 7 days in Hong Kong on the way back.

     

    But don't forget that you will need to renounce your child's citizenship at your wife's PSB (the three of you) at some point.

     

    Thanks Randy. My wife has done the HK-Shenzhen border run several times when we used to meet up in Hong Kong years back. I think our plan is as follows:

    1. Give the tourist L-visa a shot. Maybe the officer will make an exception, or just not care and grant it. This would be great. Fortunately, we'll find out quickly and the visa agency will also have their input as they deal with these cases often.

    2. Consider whether to go to the consulate in Chicago to get the travel document + renounce Chinese citizenship during the trip + get an L-visa for the next trip.

    3. Screw it and just go to HK. Hopefully my MIL can get a US tourist visa going forward which makes traveling to China much less necessary.

     

    The inability to use the US consulate on a travel document may be the deal breaker for my wife. Obviously it's unlikely that we'd need to use it, but these days it's better to be safe than sorry.

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  11. Well, your situation was same as ours: did everything right (work and travel endorsement) while waiting for the 2 year green card which was held up by numerous mistakes on their part. Should have had the GC before the birth but it was granted more than a year after the birth.

     

    Your link is correct but, as someone above mentioned: the mother is considered as "unsettled" if she doesn't have the GC at time of birth - which is not contradicted by anything in your link. There is more info in the Chinese text on these consular web sites and a phone call (in Chinese) can clear up everything. Personally, we would NOT have risked traveling on a visa if only because the child has reduced rights compared to the American parent once inside China (e.g. no right to U.S. embassy visitation if in a legal quagmire).

     

    We did not have to pay more for bulkhead seats; just note you have are traveling with an infant.

     

    Thanks Greg - can you just clarify the part I bolded? Does this mean that the child would not have the ability to use the embassy on a tourist L-visa (even though she has a US passport)? But she will on a travel document? This is really important for us.

     

    The Nationality Law is all about the child's circumstances AT BIRTH. Acquiring a green card at a later date does not change those circumstances.

     

    But I'm not meaning to discourage you from trying.

     

    I think we are going to give it a shot, and be ready to take a trip to the Chicago consulate in early September if we get rejected. There's also the option of going to Hong Kong as well although that is somewhat of a hassle for my wife who is traveling on a mainland Chinese passport.

     

    Oddly enough, last night my wife found this: http://www.china-embassy.org/chn/lszj/qz/t1234521.htm , which, as she understands it, agrees with my earlier thinking. Glad I asked around before diving in!

  12. You 3 need to travel to your Chinese consulate for the jurisdiction you are in. In our case (last year), we went to Chicago (with his US passport) and got his travel card (looks like a mini passport). They're only good for 2 years.

     

    You might get lucky and your consulate is mobile and visiting a city nearer to you and they can do this. We had to hang a couple nights in Chicago and I think we were able to pick up the travel card the day after we applied for it.

     

    Sorry, they think your child is as much a Chinese citizen (or more!) as an American one. Our understanding at this time is we all have to be present in China to revoke his citizenship. Hope we can do it before this first travel card expires because that was an expensive trip to get it.

     

    If the Chinese speaker in your house calls the consulate you will get good and accurate information.

     

    Fortunately my parents live in Chicago so we can make the 6-hour drive down from MN and hang out at my parents' place for a few nights. Cost isn't an issue but this is really one huge f****g hassle that is irritating us the more we dig into it.

     

    According to the visa service I used last year, she actually "should" be okay for an L-visa if we can show that my wife is a legal resident of the US. She did have her combo EAD/AP card before our daughter's birth, and has her green card now, which may be enough. I'm going to call them again tomorrow to verify this. This agrees with the Chinese consulate's LA webpage: http://losangeles.china-consulate.org/eng/visa/chinavisa/t1448668.htm

     

    Only other travel tips are insist on a bulkhead seat with a bassinet hanger. Load your iPad or tablet with videos. Bring snacks. Get the folding umbrella type stroller (travel bag for that helps, too). Forget the car seat, you won't be using one there. Bring as many diapers as you can: you will find the choices there weird. Bring your baby ibuprofen and/or acetaminophen. If you use a baby monitor it's easy enough to order one once you are there. Travel with a travel size hand sanitizer.

     

    Maybe some more will come to me later.

     

    Thanks a lot Greg! We'll bring diapers, medicine, and milk powder from the US. We're planning on 4 weeks, so I think one large suit case for our baby (well, she'll be around 13 months when we travel...) should be enough. I believe the plane has a 3-3-3 seat configuration on the 787 so we'll pay the extra $500-600 to get a guaranteed row to ourselves.

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    When applying for her visa, be sure to take her birth certificate and your wife's green card in order to prove that she had it at the time of birth.

     

    The consulate will require this information in order to recognize her American citizenship.

     

    Are you referring to the Chinese consulate in the US? Our daughter was born in the US and has a US passport - that should be sufficient to show citizenship when I mail in the application, right? I was hoping to be able to use a visa service for her like I did with my own L-visa to avoid taking a trip to Chicago ....

     

    Edit: I see now that minors require a copy of their birth certificate, copy of parents' passport pages, and proof of status in the US of my wife (copy of the green card, I suppose). My wife was not issued her green card until after the birth, but I don't see them asking for proof of status when the baby was born.

     

     

     

    Uh, no! They will not recognize her American citizenship by the Chinese Nationality Law - she would be required to travel on travel permits.

     

    Chinese nationality law states that a person born abroad is a Chinese national through jus sanguinis if:

    • The person is born outside China with at least one parent who has Chinese nationality, and the parent (or parents) with Chinese nationality has not yet settled in a foreign country (Article 5),

     

     

    "Settled" is interpreted as meaning "has a green card, effective at the time of birth".

     

    They can give you a hard time - just be prepared. Yes, going through a visa service would be fine as long as you provide the needed information.

     

    See Greg.D.'s post here - http://candleforlove.com/forums/topic/49770-travel-document/?p=640830

     

    The green card will have the "Resident since" (or Date of Admission) information - you won't have any trouble.

     

     

    Thanks Randy. The only wrinkle I see in our scenario is that my wife's green card "Resident since" date is well after our daughter's birthday. She was here on authorized stay and gave birth while we were waiting for our green card interview.

     

    My wife wants our daughter to have absolutely nothing to do with Chinese citizenship hence the preference for the L visa. She's paranoid there will be issues entering (or even worse, exiting) China. I appreciate the thread that you sent me, but man did it make my head spin. Glad I'm a few beers in on a day off from work.

     

    If this whole visa process goes astray and we can't get things wrapped up in time, my wife's aunt has HK residency and we're thinking it may just be easier for all of us to meet in HK at her place. But we'll give it a shot.

  14. When applying for her visa, be sure to take her birth certificate and your wife's green card in order to prove that she had it at the time of birth.

     

    The consulate will require this information in order to recognize her American citizenship.

     

    Are you referring to the Chinese consulate in the US? Our daughter was born in the US and has a US passport - that should be sufficient to show citizenship when I mail in the application, right? I was hoping to be able to use a visa service for her like I did with my own L-visa to avoid taking a trip to Chicago ....

     

    Edit: I see now that minors require a copy of their birth certificate, copy of parents' passport pages, and proof of status in the US of my wife (copy of the green card, I suppose). My wife was not issued her green card until after the birth, but I don't see them asking for proof of status when the baby was born.

  15. My wife and I are planning on taking a trip to China later this year so the in-laws can meet our 11-month old daughter for the first time. Our daughter will be around 13 months old when we travel. I have a 10-year L (tourist visa). In the future we plan to stay anywhere from 2-4 weeks. Would an L visa be appropriate for a small child? Any other China-specific related tips for traveling with a (approximately) 1-year old kid?

     

     

  16. Ok the hornet's nest is history. She killed more than 100 hornet's one at a time

    But the last one got her good before it died. I just don't get it. Absolutely no common sense at all!

     

    Sorry to hear of the trouble you're having. I'm a newcomer to this board so I don't know what you've posted before, but hopefully things end up working out one way or another. If there's any advice you can offer, it'd be much appreciated for a "greenhorn" like me :yikes:

  17. Keep track of NAMES, dates, and other information (i.e., who says what) in case you need to fall back on simply providing THAT information.

    Great point, and even better if you can get as much of this in writing as possible.

     

    One other (hail mary) option may be to try to call USCIS, plead your case, and ask for emergency advance parole. It's pretty difficult to get, and not sure if they'd even consider it given the missing docs, but at this point it's worth a few phone calls IMO. Call USCIS, speak to a T2 officer, and try to get an Infopass appointment at your local field office.

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    Another possibility is that her B1 will be enough to get her back in the country, if she goes to get the certificate of birth herself. Check with your local lawyer.

     

    This will result in her I-485 getting denied as she doesn't have AP yet.

     

    A real tough situation. She may run into issues with CBP upon re-entry if they can see the (theoretically cancelled) I-485, and even if they let her in, she may have possible issues with USCIS regarding intent if they file the I485 a second time on a B1/B2, since it's pretty damn clear what they are up to.

     

    I'd do anything possible to get the document from within the US. Exhaust all possible options before having her go get it. Otherwise, you're probably looking at going the CR1 road down the future....

    That was the problem We did not apply for Advance Parole since we did not plan to leave the country at all, and we do not want to abandon our application. too costly and timely. Thanks

    That was the problem We did not apply for Advance Parole since we did not plan to leave the country at all, and we do not want to abandon our application. too costly and timely. Thanks

     

    We will try from here somehow, but again it's tough and 80 days time seems long, but it's not. If anyone else can't give an idea that's great too!

     

     

    If it makes you feel any better, I don't think it would've mattered in this situation. AP takes 6-8 months now, and even if it were faster, I'm not sure they'd process it anyways until all her documentation were complete. For all future readers - there is no additional charge for AP and it's a very short form - apply!! Especially with the I-485 processing times averaging 11-13 months, and up to 18-24 months in the busiest field offices.

     

    Sorry for the situation you're in. We also adjusted from a B2 visa but fortunately my mother-in-law was able to get all the documents at the local gov't office. If I we're in you're position I'd speak to a good and very reputable attorney or immigration consultant, ideally in your wife's hometown. The lawyer that multinational firms and rich Chinese people use. At the very least to get their input. Even if it's costly, you're probably going to be getting the real thing and will spend less than having to buy her a plane ticket and pay to refile the application. Now is not the time to be farting around with one-man WeChat operations and shady middlemen. Best of luck, and hopefully someone offers a better solution.

     

    One final thing: I'm not sure the 80 day time period on the B2 is really relevant anymore as she has a pending I485 and is authorized to stay in the US until USCIS adjudicates her application. Her B2 is probably as good as gone, now that she has shown intent to permanently stay in the US and may have issues with CBP upon re-entry. Did USCIS give a deadline?

  19. Another possibility is that her B1 will be enough to get her back in the country, if she goes to get the certificate of birth herself. Check with your local lawyer.

     

    This will result in her I-485 getting denied as she doesn't have AP yet.

     

    A real tough situation. She may run into issues with CBP upon re-entry if they can see the (theoretically cancelled) I-485, and even if they let her in, she may have possible issues with USCIS regarding intent if they file the I485 a second time on a B1/B2, since it's pretty damn clear what they are up to.

     

    I'd do anything possible to get the document from within the US. Exhaust all possible options before having her go get it. Otherwise, you're probably looking at going the CR1 road down the future....

  20. We are approaching 10 year and she has language problems. With her age, learning the most complicated language to learn for a non-English speaking person is difficult. It's still baby talk.

     

    So we are watching. Good luck.....

     

    My wife's English isn't the greatest - she's very conversational and has no issues talking about work, travel, raising kids, etc. but if you ask her about more complicated topics like "corporate espionage" she won't know where to begin.

     

    Before our AOS interview she basically spent two weeks cramming the I-485/I-130 forms, made flashcards for words she didn't know, had me constantly "practice" interview her, and so on. All while raising our 8 month old baby at the time. Turns out that was enough to fly though the interview without an interpreter without any issues.

  21. We had our interview today and we think it went really well! Our interviewer said that there wasn't anything that she was concerned about and that we should expect a decision in the mail in 1-2 weeks or we can check online sooner. Do we check for the status on the same website where we checked our case status before or is there a special interview page?

     

    The birth certificate thing was not an issue. We had a friend do a certified translation and brought the original certificate to the interview and the interviewer accepted it with no problem.

     

    Thank you everyone who has helped us through this process! Hopefully, we'll get the decision soon, and won't have to worry about immigration for another year and a half!

     

    Congratulations! Check both of the USCIS sites (the DHS one and the egov one). It should say "Case was Approved" or "Card in Production" depending on how fast things move along. We were told at the interview that we'd be approved and an hour later the online statuses were updated.

  22. They can file I-130 and I-485 at the same time for Adjustment of Status in the US. But they would have to abandon the plan to leave the US and plan on staying in the US for months, as leaving while I-485 is pending automatically abandons their I-485 unless they've been granted Advance Parole before leaving. They can file I-765 for EAD and I-131 for Advance Parole, both for free, together with their I-485, but these days it can take up to half a year to get the EAD/AP. Each for has many required supporting forms and documents; make sure to read each form's instructions.

     

    If they don't want to do Adjustment of Status in the US, they would do Consular Processing abroad, in which case you would just file I-130 initially.

     

    as they will be unable to adjust from their B1/B2.

    Not true. They can adjust from B1 or B2 status.

     

    There are people waiting over 8 months for advance parole. It's insane how much the process has slowed down.

     

    Hi,

     

    My spouse who recently became US citizen wants to have her parents permanently stay here in US with us. They're currently here on B1/B2 visa and have a flight back on AUG 7th.

     

    For them to do a quick status adjustment, do they have to file just I-485 since their daughter is US citizen now, or do they have to file any other docs, because in my USCIS I don't see file I-485 but I see I-539, so I am a little bit confused about that.

     

    Be sure to check the current I-485 processing times.... most offices are around 1 year for the I-485, with some of the busier offices (eg Seattle, SF, NY) taking 18-24 months to complete AOS due to the massive interview backlog.

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