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  3. Have I disqualified myself?

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    "... I hadn't mentioned before is that I am 60 and she is 51...." Yep, I agree, this takes significant pressure off in the eyes of the VO. A woman of 51 is much less likely to scam for a green card, first because you and her are more emotionally aligned, and her options are more limited as a single woman in America. New suspicions might revolve around various nuclear family members trying to tag along.

    The information I've gotten here has been helpful. I need to know what I'm dealing with it looks like its going to be a bit more of an uphill slog than I first thought. I was hoping to have a faster resolution so we can get on with our lives, its not like we have another 20-30 years of quality life ahead of us. The rest of her family is settled and established so I wouldn't expect them to want to tag along.

  4. Have I disqualified myself?

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    Posted · Edited by Daniel1122 (see edit history)

    I want to thank all of you in sharing your experiences and thoughts. I used a lawyer the first time around and thought I might be able to avoid that this time but it doesn't look like it. I will take my time to get everything organized including writing out the "letter of evolution". Something I hadn't mentioned before is that I am 60 and she is 51. We don't have a lot of time to spend in the "waiting mode"...I will consult with an attorney and see what is the best path to take.

    Thanks again to everyone for responding.

  5. Have I disqualified myself?

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    Posted · Edited by Daniel1122 (see edit history)

    I don't think you have completely disqualified yourself, but with your history of four marriages and recent divorce with Chinese wife, it will raise red flags for sure. Someone suggested a good immigration attorney and in your case that might be wise. Don't mean to be negative, just realistic. Were any of the three marriages prior to the Chinese lady to a foreign woman, requiring a visa? :blink:

     

    No, they were all American. The the main reason I went to China for a wife was to go to an entirely different culture. I had never before noticed how truly beautiful Asian women are so I was pretty enthusiastic about my trip there. In the past I had a way of attracting women that have been badly hurt and they see me as an easy mark. Took me a while to figure that out...The lady I met recently is not broken or damaged. She is very happy and healthy and in love with life. I don't feel the same attraction for her that I have felt with the others so I find that encouraging.

  6. Have I disqualified myself?

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    There are two things that have come up in my wanting to marry a Chinese woman.

    I am in the midst of divorcing my first Chinese wife, she was only after a green card and long term support. Fortunately this came to light before she got her 10 year card. I am not divorced from her yet, it is in process.

    We had been separated for 4 months when I met another Chinese woman. I have met someone new and want to know if I would be rejected to try to bring her here either as a fiance' or wife. Which would be the better way to try?

    The other thing is that I have already been married four times counting my most recent Chinese wife.

    I know I have a lousy track record but is that enough to reject my request for her visa? I appreciate your input....

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