MarkLuvsShuPing Posted November 30, 2003 Report Share Posted November 30, 2003 I have a moral quandry. I was talking to a friend of mine about the gift I need to give my future brother-in-law. I've settled on a cigarette lighter, a cigarette case and a cigarette holder or ashtray. He asked me, "Why don't you give him a pack of American cigarettes?" I told him my objection to handing out cigarettes and supporting a bad habit. Then he turned into the devil and tempted me with dollar (or RMB) signs. His idea was for me to take my limit of cigarettes and when the neccessity to grease a palm arises, use them instead of money. No doubt they are a sought after commodity and rather than offering $20 or $30 whenever a "tip" is needed, spend that money on a carton of cigarettes here and give away a $3 pack instead. Actually, he also suggested that I sell them, but I don't know how legal that is. I have to admit, despite my dislike for cigarettes, it is tempting. I already stated in a previous post that I didn't like the idea and wouldn't do it, but this has me considering the possibility. They are going to smoke anyway, whether I give them cigarettes or not, why shouldn't I take advantage of the situation? What do you guys think? Is it evil, illeagal, stupid or a really good idea? Link to comment
se_lang Posted November 30, 2003 Report Share Posted November 30, 2003 Is it evil, illeagal, stupid?Yes, But sadly I think effective. I would think long and hard before I did it Link to comment
Martytb Posted November 30, 2003 Report Share Posted November 30, 2003 About the smokes.....My wife, the doctor, who is antismoking to the max, put together gift packages to accompany the wedding invitations. Each package contained all sorts of candy and a pack of cigarettes. Like you said, their gonna smoke anyway, and american cigarettes would be an excellent gift. Besides, you were preparing to provide all the smoking related gifts,so you might as well give him the end product. You might not think it's the best gift to give but the recipient certainly will. Link to comment
Patrick & Li Posted December 1, 2003 Report Share Posted December 1, 2003 LOL....I found Chinese cigarettes to be ok, in fact, one of the brands i smoked over there were a combination of Chinese/American tobacco. If ya choose to do that, Buy them Duty-Free, much cheaper! Patrick Link to comment
Orrin Posted December 1, 2003 Report Share Posted December 1, 2003 "Double Happyness" (in the red pack) smokes are quite good. I smoked them for the entire 3 years I was there. They only cost about 7 yuan a pack at any mom&pop store. Link to comment
AZwolfman Posted December 1, 2003 Report Share Posted December 1, 2003 evil! Against my morals. Link to comment
MarkLuvsShuPing Posted December 2, 2003 Author Report Share Posted December 2, 2003 ShuPing doesn't think the marriage license will be a problem. She seems to think it will only take one day. Therefore, probably no bribe needed. therefore, no cigarrettes are needed. I think I will go ahead and give the bro-in-law a pack, afterall, he will buy and smoke some anyway. Link to comment
monte Posted December 6, 2003 Report Share Posted December 6, 2003 The advice on buying the cigarettes duty free was correct. I purchased two cartons (import limit) of Marlboro box to take as a gift, cost me $38.00 per carton in my home town. On China Southern just prior to landing in Guangzhou their price was $10.00 per carton with no limit. Gave them to my wifes father. As for a bribe of any sort or even an attaboy type thing I never was in the position to feel the need. Ruwei definitely took charge of any of that sort of thing long before I even understood what was going on. Good luck, Monte Link to comment
Martytb Posted December 6, 2003 Report Share Posted December 6, 2003 Gee Monte, your Ruwei sounds a lot like my WeiPing. I had no idea what was gonna happen next. Always one surprise after the next. I hate surprises!!!!! Link to comment
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