AngryTexan Posted February 22, 2003 Report Share Posted February 22, 2003 This has been one of the most depressing days I have experienced in a good while, and there have been many since this ridiculous, idiotic ordeal began for all of us. PJ, you MUST rely on all of us to help you get over this. Do not be afraid to call if you ever need to talk about this - I have PM'ed you my number. Link to comment
manhattanmoon Posted February 22, 2003 Report Share Posted February 22, 2003 I am speechless! PJ, stay strong! The family you created here are all behind you. Link to comment
orbitalpunk Posted February 22, 2003 Report Share Posted February 22, 2003 God, I just wanna throw up when i read there her letter to her pimp. http://www.snappyhats.com/26.gif Good wife, I good return many, but Zhong all day long discharges the stomach, receives your email good happy feeling is very warm. Already seemed not has a fever. Very ÏëÄã can be familiar with side that the life, knows you every day all is midnight awakes I is very grieved. I can look after oneself, you also want, hopes separated time everybody all to be able diligently, then meets again the time can be very happy. Is this faith for me all powers, you really are I complete, can feel? I the picture which bake us sends inside next email, you looked up the appendix may see. Loves you the big cat The dawn swims Zhu wrote: My dear husband: What do you make according to pedigree? I tonight teach this morning 3 and half o'clock get up the left body, whether there is do you improve according to the family? Whether there is does Zhong have a fever? Remembers drinks the multi- spots water and takes the medicine, the Guangzhou germ are many, I really are good worry you, You a bit faster good return Ring Link to comment
Eric&Yuhui Posted February 22, 2003 Report Share Posted February 22, 2003 God, I just wanna throw up when i read there her letter to her pimp. http://www.snappyhats.com/26.gif Good wife, I good return many, but Zhong all day long discharges the stomach, receives your email good happy feeling is very warm. Already seemed not has a fever. Very ÏëÄã can be familiar with side that the life, knows you every day all is midnight awakes I is very grieved. I can look after oneself, you also want, hopes separated time everybody all to be able diligently, then meets again the time can be very happy. Is this faith for me all powers, you really are I complete, can feel? I the picture which bake us sends inside next email, you looked up the appendix may see. Loves you the big cat The dawn swims Zhu wrote: My dear husband: What do you make according to pedigree? I tonight teach this morning 3 and half o'clock get up the left body, whether there is do you improve according to the family? Whether there is does Zhong have a fever? Remembers drinks the multi- spots water and takes the medicine, the Guangzhou germ are many, I really are good worry you, You a bit faster good return RingI don't think here is the place to expose others correspondence. Let's be a bit sensitive to the issue and to the person here, shall we. No need to have painful reminders. Even in a poor babelfish translation. Link to comment
PJ Posted February 22, 2003 Author Report Share Posted February 22, 2003 Here is a pure translation I received. I will be honest, I am not going to hide, and I am not going to sugarcoat anything. I will also admit that I am trying to face something that has been very difficult for me ... going on 40 hours no sleep now. My dear wife:i get much better now, but i still need to go tobathroom many times a day. i receive your e-mail andfeel so warm. i have no more fever. i hope you can getused to the climate there. when i know you alwaysawake in the midnight, i feel so pain in my heart. iwill take care myself, but you too. we work hard whilewe are in different location, we will have happinesswhen we are together. because of this, i have energyto do everything. you are all of mine, can you feelthat. i will send you the photo (going to BBQ) in nexte-mail. you will see it when you check the e-mailattachment. yours big cat. my dear husband:what are you doing now? i awoke at 3:00 am thismorning. Do you feel better? Do you still have fever.you must remember to drink more water and takemedicine. there is so much virus in GuangZhou. i amworry about you. i hope you get well soon.yours Ring. Link to comment
Eric&Yuhui Posted February 22, 2003 Report Share Posted February 22, 2003 You shouldn't hide I agree totally. I admire your courage in this ordeal... And if this helps, so be it. PJ.... Easier said than done.. but Get some sleep. Link to comment
SBS Posted February 22, 2003 Report Share Posted February 22, 2003 Here is a pure translation I received. I will be honest, I am not going to hide, and I am not going to sugarcoat anything. I will also admit that I am trying to face something that has been very difficult for me ... going on 40 hours no sleep now. My dear wife:i get much better now, but i still need to go tobathroom many times a day. i receive your e-mail andfeel so warm. i have no more fever. i hope you can getused to the climate there. when i know you alwaysawake in the midnight, i feel so pain in my heart. iwill take care myself, but you too. we work hard whilewe are in different location, we will have happinesswhen we are together. because of this, i have energyto do everything. you are all of mine, can you feelthat. i will send you the photo (going to BBQ) in nexte-mail. you will see it when you check the e-mailattachment. yours big cat. my dear husband:what are you doing now? i awoke at 3:00 am thismorning. Do you feel better? Do you still have fever.you must remember to drink more water and takemedicine. there is so much virus in GuangZhou. i amworry about you. i hope you get well soon.yours Ring.P.J.I know it is hard that you can go to bed after this horrible thing happened. But we do hope now you can calm donw and try to get some food and get some rest. Please dont damage your body and health. We are here always on candle for you. But we dont want to see your body gets weak and weak without sleeping for this long. Now only you can take care of yourself. please give your mind and body a rest... God bless you! Link to comment
orbitalpunk Posted February 22, 2003 Report Share Posted February 22, 2003 I don't think here is the place to expose others correspondence. Let's be a bit sensitive to the issue and to the person here, shall we. No need to have painful reminders. Even in a poor babelfish translation. Stop giving me crap eric. as your wrong again. He posted in chinese origianlly, if he had a problem with it he wouldnt have done it. I wouldnt have posted this if i knew it was against his wishes either. Link to comment
Guest huyaa Posted February 22, 2003 Report Share Posted February 22, 2003 P.J : I am a middle-aged Chinese woman, my husband is in America now. I've been felt so bad since I read the story. Every body of us on 001 felt very bad too. No words could be enough for us to comfort you, but one thing I am sure is that as a nice soul, you deserve a faithful wife , so God let you know the truth ! God will vouchsafe you a good wife someday. ZHU XIAOYONG will get retribution from what she did. Take Care Link to comment
SleepingDragon Posted February 22, 2003 Report Share Posted February 22, 2003 PJ, I am very sorry to hear what has happened to you. I'm totally speechless as I read your story here. Your story not just makes me feel anger, but worried as well. It angers me that these people could do such a thing to hurt innocent people and is one of the reasons that there is so much delays in family being reunited. But I guess life always has its ups and its downs. Please try to stay strong through this time and do get some rest. It's not good for you to not sleep at all. It is indeed very hard, but do get some rest. I'll share with you a real dilemma in my family as well. My cousin who recently went back to China to be with her husband after waiting for 5 years just found out that her husband has another woman (mistress). What makes it worst is that she is now pregnant. She doesn't know what to do as her husband hardly go see her but she still loves him and can't let go. I'm having to call her once in a while to give her comfort... So your finding out about this deception early in a way is a good thing. Now the healing process shall begin. One day you will find the woman of your dreams and your true soulmate. Until that time please do get some rest and look forward to the future. Take care... Link to comment
SBS Posted February 22, 2003 Report Share Posted February 22, 2003 All these people are insulting True love in this world. really make me cherish all i have here more and more....guess P.J is resting now. Hope he will feel better.... we pray for him Link to comment
PJ Posted February 22, 2003 Author Report Share Posted February 22, 2003 All, I can't tell you how much your words of support and encouragement have meant to me during this time... I am unpinning this topic now, because I wish to share my closure of this whole heart-wrenching nightmare. Without further ado ... please see "Cleanin Out My Closet". P.J. Link to comment
Guest sherriingz Posted February 22, 2003 Report Share Posted February 22, 2003 i am sorry to hear it. the woman lost all chinese women face! but please know: god close a door and will open another for you. i believe you can find better wife! Link to comment
PJ Posted February 22, 2003 Author Report Share Posted February 22, 2003 All, Thank you so much for your words of support and encouragement. I will not be pinning any more subjects about my ex-fiancee, as I do realize and see that there was some anger in doing so. This is a place where I hope that love and trust can flourish, and I thank you all for your kind words, emails, and PMs during this time. Sincerely yours, P.J. Link to comment
luckybabe Posted February 23, 2003 Report Share Posted February 23, 2003 sorry to hear such a sad story.. but i wonder if she got married, how can she got the official unmarried paper from the china gov? anyway.. forgot her that is the only thing you can do... hope you will be fine... Link to comment
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