li - i don't know exactly how Griz is using it (I read his post about it too) but IME, it's a side effect of being doted on by parents and grandparents, that ONE child. There's a behavior associated with it, as well. The common moniker for it is 'empress' at the house. Is basic concept of getting one's way, all the time, regardless of the consequences, and pitching a fit (crying, screaming, hitting) until one gets her way. usually without any fear of later punishment (as there is no punishment for an empress). Now, you've got a pile o degrees, surely you've witnessed this type o behavior in China ? I know I have, but it's not 100 percent across the board. It would just be easier to say that they are spoiled.