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Patrick & Li

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  1. Glad you cleared that up for me Clifford, I missunderstood what Mooncafe was saying.

    Yes, that is exactly how i met my wife.

    I had just gotten out of an awful 4 year committment with my ex-fiancee from the USA. I was lonely but not looking to make that next step. But i had always been attracted to the "Asian look". So i signed up with a internet dating site. My purpose was to make friends with some asian ladies. I never thought i would meet or even marry one.

    My wife on the other hand had been single for 5 years. She hadnt dated anyone in those 5 years and she had heard from friends that foreign men were different from the Chinese man ...ie..Foreign men are more "Family oriented". Those were her words and not mine but that appealed to me. I know that isnt always the case anywhere, but that she was searching for something that i also was searching for, gave us something in common.

    We started talking, and the more we got to know each other. The more we realized we were highly compatible. We both decided to dive in head first.

    Best move i have ever made in my life. I dont regret a single thing about it except the fact that my Gov't makes this such a hassle. We are both being patient and we both tend to ease the others burdens when we become impatient!

    So yes, There is love on the internet, and yes, i did meet my wife through a Internet dating service.

     

    Patrick :blink:

  2. I come here everyday to check in on the progress of people looking for there Visa. Yea, sometimes i am disappointed when there is nothing new. I love to read about everybodies different stories. I especially value the opinions and views of our better halves. I have tried to encourage my wife to share her opinions here, but she is too shy to do it. I love reading about their new experiences in the USA. I always translate that back to my wife. It helps her to understand what she is facing when she finally gets here.

    Please encourage your Wife/Fiancee to post here. I think we all learn from it. I will continue to try and encourage my wife to also do so.

     

    Patrick :lol:

  3. Hello PJ, if you want to get real drastic, you can get a job like mine, drive truck from coast to coast, always changing time zones, always the worst when going west. :D  ;)  :lol:

    Try working 11pm to 7 am Monday thru Friday, and then change over to a 1st shift schedule on week-end so you can be normal! Fridays and Mondays are real killers. Glad i am back on 2nd shift now!

     

    Patrick

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