------------ I thought all my stuff was done, I have shown proof of a relationship etc.. I am now confused Up to now you have proved you met and possibly provided some proof of relationship. At the interview they will want to see proof of continued relationship, over the next 6-12 months or so, it all depends on if Santa likes you more than other or gives you a piece of coal because you were bad. B) Then after she arrives you will build more proof of relationship for the AOS interview and removal of conditional status interview assuming you are going for a K-1 visa. Each step of the process is looking for a different type of evidence, but you can worry about that as you enter those phases. Really it's easy as it's every day stuff. The proof of relationship you need to focus on now is something you are probably doing anyway, like emails and phone calls. You need to use a phone service or phone card that will provide you with a printable record of calls. I personally like DynaSky.com. If i am planning on be with her at the interview can i just bring all info with me?? And i also need to know when she needs to pay for the visa before or after her medical exam?