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  1. I just experienced probably one of the best shows of love last night.

     

    Love is seeing my husband break into tears the second that our webcams connected and he was able to see me for the first time since I left China. He said he had never realized how much he missed me until that moment. My husband couldn't stop telling me about the things in his life that were completely lack-luster without me. The food wasn't as good, the wind was colder, jokes weren't as funny, etc. And that's exactly how i felt.

     

    For me, THAT is love. Not that you are incomplete without your spouse/fiancee/etc, It's when you're entire life just SHINES when they're there. When no matter how cold you are, thier smile can make you feel like you're in Miami. No matter how green the grass is or how blue the sky blue, the colors are more brilliant if you have your darling.

     

    Not that we don't love each other when we are apart. It's that the "gray-ness" that we feel without each other, shows us just how much the other means to us.

     

    It still makes me cry to think about.

     

    THAT to me is real love.

    Beautifully said Amber, Junjie wrote to me once after we had met for the first time and I had been home for about a week " The best and most beautiful things, must be felt with the heart.

  2. hi guys and gals,

     

    has any americans eaten dog meat yet? :D

    Yes and monkey, lizard, cat, snake, rat and a few other things I was affraid to ask what it was, but the monkey was by far the hardest to eat, not because of the taste, which was very good but because of the way it looked like a small human body when all cut up. :rain:

  3. If you don't get an SSN soon enough just go to a different county and apply for a marriage license. You can call ahead or check websites for what each county requires.

     

    Each county clerk interprets and applies the law, and some of them are overzealous about it. It isn't an issue in a place like Houston, because they are accustomed to people without social security numbers applying for a marriage license.

    I bet you guys there are used to it, my Uncle lives in Dallas and he says they jump the ditch all the time :D .

    Where I live they don't ask for ssn, good lock

  4. Listen you need to call the police NOW.

     

    While this guy is a loser and the girl is not being treated well: Exactly what law do you see being broken in the list of concerns Threadbare has written?

     

    Guys like this are not that uncommon. There's nothing the police can do unless a law has been broken.

    How about unlawful imprisonment?

  5. Best wishes Charles, wishing you great things B) and hoping you get PINK!!!

    send our best wishes to your wife.You probly know this already but, I'll say it anyway, The best and most beautiful things, must be felt with the heart, good luck again friend.

  6. Happy to hear its all worked out well.

     

    Hope you can join Amanda,Jin,Wendy and others on the chinese forum.

     

    http://candleforlove.com/forums/index.php?showforum=16

     

    Thank you so much Rob and Jin. Yes, my situation is getting better but when I look back what I have been through since that happened, I still can not help myself tearing. It was the hell. I would like to join Jin and Amanda's forum to help some Chinese women to adjust to the new life in this new country.

    JanyNH, when ever my Junjie can get here, I am sure she will be more then happy to know people like you ladies here and have your help adjusting to this country, I hope you all stay here for when that time comes, I am sure she will need your help along with mine, thanks again.

    Mike. :ph34r:

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