Mengxin, I can also sympathize with you and your wife. This whole process is very rediculous. I did not go thru Vermont, I went thru the turtle of Nebraska but I still have nothing to complain about compared to you. I do agree that husband and wives should have the top priority. I wish there was a way to get some type of logical order thru their thick skulls but apparently when it comes to government procedures, you cannot teach an old dog new tricks. Hang in there, you will prevail. Bill